'We have not seen anything more destructive for noble deed; nor more corrupting of hearts, nor more swift in destroying the servant, nor more close to hatred to Allah tala 'ala, nor more affirming to the objective of ostentation-(showing off),vanity-(pride)and leadership that the lack of a servant recognising his own defects and his focusing on the defects of other people.
Taken from book 'Etiquettes (adaab) of the Companionship (Suhba)'.
Sufi Gem: Focus on your own defects not others, otherwise you will destroy your good actions, and Never Spiritually Travel the Journey to Allah, regardless of all the Dhikr and Salawat you read, without proper (Tariybah Training) you waste most your life and end up (Muflis Bankrupt). - Sajad Ali.
Sajad Ali
When You Slip and Fall - Sidi Ibn Ata illah (qaddas Allahu Sirru)
"He may open the door of obedience for you, but not the door of acceptance. Or He may judge a sin against you, and it is a means of arrival-(wusul) When You Slip and Fall."
From Hikam by Sidi Ibn Ata illah (qaddas Allahu Sirru)
Note: 'the door of obedience for you, but not the door of acceptance' there people who of ibadah with arrogance thinking they are special because they haven't slip or sinned or a level arrogance can come over them, or they judge others are Sinners and they are not again Arrogance.
But there are many who Slip/fall into Sins and do so much Tawba it opens the Doors of Walayah Sainthood, thus sinning for some is the door of Sainthood in reality - Sajad Ali.
The best naseeha for all on Facebook or not, so pay attention, learn, adopt and live by this and forward to others. It's why so many people have issues with Health and Wealth, and Wealth, it's all lack of Adaab;
"Abdullah in abbas (qaddas Allahu sirru) said; Do Not talk about things that do not concern you, and leave much of does concern, and do not argue with fools or clement-(lenient/peaceful) people. Only mention your brother in ways that you would love to be mentioned taken from; Imam Muhasibi's Risalah al Mustarshidin.
Because of the damaging effects as mentioned in Imam Ghazali's (qaddas Allahu sirru) Minhaj al-'Abidin, Third Hurdle Chapter, Subsection - (The Tongue -Lisan) it says;
The Tongue affects all the members of the human body, either helping them or causing them disappointment.
Malik ibn Dinar said; "If you notice a hardness in your heart, a feebleness in your body, and a deprivation in your sustenance, you should know that you have spoken about something that does not concern you."
(Minhaj al-'Abidin ila Jannati Rabbi 'l-'Alamin)-The Path of the Worshipful Servants to the Garden of the Lord of All the Worlds By Imam al-Ghazali (qaddas Allahu sirru). "Learn, adaab, before you try to learn ilm" Sajad
Why for some Duas don’t work.
Learn from fertile land,
For only fertile lands produces the best crops,
And in barren, dry land nothing grows.
Negative minds and souls, are dry lands.
They won’t produce bountiful results.
Change your thoughts, clear the rubbish within,
Dig out all waswas, place soil of good Niyyah,
This only happens by watering your souls,
With Husn al Zann (good Opinions of Allah)
Only then, can you sow Seeds of Yaqin,
With Spiritual Energy Rays of Dhikr,
Soon does, a fertile Soul produces results!
Sajad Ali Tariqah Qadiri Dastagir
Bitter Destiny-Qadr; Duas are like tranquilizers, they numb the pain of one's bitter Destiny-Qadr. So our souls don't feel traumatised by the Pain of Life to stay sane. This is the reason why we do Dhikr and Wird to stay sane!
My Dear, my Naseeha, this is why your duas dont work, You need to stop thinking how Allah will punish you, for this Angers Allah!
"O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is Forgiving, the Merciful." (39:53) For When Allah completed the creation, He wrote in His Book which is with Him on His Throne, 'My Mercy overpowers My Anger.'
You need to stop thinking how Allah will punish you, for this Angers Allah! and think How Allah will be Gentle and Merciful to you. Yes we Sin, (from big sins to small ones) slip make all sorts of mistakes and errors and silliness.
Always have a high opinion of Allah, and Allah will have a High opinion you. Never say about someone, ‘Allah will never forgive him, because he did this or that'. That statement is enough to put you into hell.
Or to say about yourself, ‘I've done so many Haram actions and bad sins Allah will never forgive me', for Angers Allah and causing punishment to yourself.
But to think oh i've Sinned i will get punished! means you are cutting yourself off Allah's Mercy which is (Haram and thinking in Kufr) and insults Allah's Mercy.
Because now you questioning the Mercy of Allah and its only His to give, but yours to ask him the Most Generosity One, Most Merciful one Most Graciousness.
So control your tongue about Allah's lack of Mercy. And if you think Allah is not Merciful he will not show His Mercy to you, then we won't!
Allah says i'm in then Opinion of my Slave, so if he thinks im Merciful I will treat him with Mercy, but if he thinks I'm wrathful i will treat him according to his opinion of me with Wrath.
And this is regardless how much Sins we have done. Why do people let Waswas of Shaytan and the Nafs over Power them, to lessen the Power of Allah who can make the impossible to Possible and change by a simple act of a single Astghfirullah from the Heart.
So say Astghfirullah and then move on, only have the Best Opinion of Allah's Divine Mercy to shower you, which is what Allah teaches, but instead people prefer to be hopeless and believe wrathful thoughts of a Wrath Lord! that isn't the Allah i Believe in nor should it be the Allah you should believe in either.
My Allah is al-Ghafoor-The most Forgiving, al-’Afuw-forgiveness or heal, al-Tawwab, Acceptor of repentance, al-Haleem-The Clement, al-Rahman and al-Rahim-The most Merciful and Compassionate, Lateef-The Gentle.
I can Sin a 1000 times But Allah's Mercy is above my Sins, that is the Allah i follow, yes i fear Him, but out of awe like a child does to his mother or father to displease them, I have hopeful Allah of Love, which is Mercy.
Even thinking for example Magic is powerful is haram, think it nothing, think it a test and don't give it any worth or reality for only then it attacks you, for you have lessen Allah's Mercy for Allah is More Mighty and Powerful, instead think it worthless and insignificant, in the sight of Allah's Qadr and Quwwa Power.
Do Tawba and reflect on that and only have Khayr-goodness and focus on Allah's Sultaniyya -Authority over all things.
And I remember this Dhikr to boost your iman when such silly notions and thoughts comes your hearts. "La hawla wala quwwata illa billahi'l-'Aliyyi'l-Adhim"
Menaing: There is neither power nor No strength except with Allah, The Highest (Al-‘Ali) and The Supreme Glory (Al-‘Adhim).
This will make Shaytan run and tame the ego and this dhikr is said to be from ( a treasure from the treasures of Paradise-jannah - hadith) and enough to change Qadr if said with a pure heart of Sincerity.
The Allah I follow says ask through my Greatest Waseelah ﷺ Guaranteed a Bad Qadr Destiny will change or it's given in Jannah.
Allah didn't ask us to make Dua for just Jannah he said read Salawat on his Beloved ﷺ and Jannah is guaranteed without asking.
O wretched Soul Destined for Damnation through Destiny or Sins, the (White of Hand) of Dalali al-Khayrat will Save you, and change your Destiny for Jannah.
So stretch your hand out and pick up Dalali al-Khayrat and be Saved. So what about Awwali al-Khayrat, that enjoys the reader with Dunya and Ruhani change of Destiny.
Think Big! Allah isn't a Miser, don't ask for Small things in Duas but ask for Big things in Duas, Allah is Generous! Ask make Dua!
You having Desire to make many Duas is your desire to change Destiny, Allah doesn't change a situation until, you change yourself.
But! Your lack of Dua is your lack of changing your Qadr, because you didn't ask and kept on asking, the Door of Destiny remains closed.
If you don't ask you don't get In life, Qadr or Destiny does & can Change, How! By you asking! Isn't Dua asking Allah for change.
Life is a Vibration of Energy, what you give, is what you will get in return, so give Love, Joy and receive in abundance of Love-Hubb, Joy and peace-Salaam of mind and Sakinah - Tranquillity.
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